Share Your Pain

Oprah said to a brave woman who went from over 500 pounds to under 200, "Your pain empowers someone." Not a twisted way of thinking but an honest one. When we share our pain in a way that doesn't ask for pity but rather respect,there is someone out there who relates to our story and is empowered.

When I decided to bare my soul in my bio/self-help book "Lessons From the Potholes of Life" it was with much trepidation. What would they think if they found out what I'd done in my life? What if they didn't love me anymore?What if they didn't respect me?...and so on and so forth.

Anyone out ever there felt like that? I'm here to tell you that when you share your pain, there is someone out there who says," Wow! IF she could beat that or turn her life around, I can too." Not only did my presence in the community increase but so did the respect. 3 years later I still have people come up to me and tell me what my story did for them. I didn't want a best seller, just a book that would make a difference in someone's life.

You may never publish your story, although I heartily recommend it, but you can share your painful experience with someone who is hurting. Story telling is a powerful way to reach people. Try telling your story at your club, Toastmasters, kids school, church or to a magazine.

The one caution is to not do it as a way of getting even or cause pain to someone else. Unless we are talking about a predator or murderer, handle with diplomacy.This can be dangerous ground in families. No matter what a person may have done, especially if they are still alive, tell the story with compassion and dignity.

Paul Anka was asked how he felt about helping new rising stars , "If you can help somone, you have to." It's just that simple.

Keep in mind there are retreats, workshops and much more in store for you this fall. Email me or scroll down for details listed.

Live from a heart overflowing with acceptance and appreciation.

Celebration of life as the sun sets on Powell River. 

Retreats

It's part way through summer and already the retreats and workshops for the fall are lining up.

Sept.16-18 in Naramata(outside Penticton, BC) I will be teaching at the "Wise Woman Weekend". For schedule and details go to:
www.wisewomanproductions.ca
This promises to be a wonderful spiritual experience for women from all walks of life to gather and be refreshed and renewed.

Sept.23-25 at Kent's Beach Resort south of Powell River, we are holding a "Seaside Writing and Musical Retreat." This all inclusive weekend promises to give the creativity of both writers and musicians the space to flower and breathe. I will be teamed up with professional musician Helena Sandler (www.saternamusic.com) to provide free onsite coaching, great food, ideas, fun, free journalling course and more for as little as $275.

Call toll free: 1-866-373-2607 or email: dreambg1@shaw.ca for details and a brochure.

Oct.15 at the French Club, The Powell River Festival of Writers presents "The Publisher and The Scribes" starring Howard White author and publisher of Harbour Publishing teaching "Publishing in the Rain." (www.harbourpublishing.com)

He'lll cover various aspects of publishing and writing. Rounding out the day local historian and author Karen Southern will share her experiences on writing, followed by an open house for the public and book sales. From 9:00-5:00 you'll be inspired and educated for only $40. Watch the festival web site soon for registration information: www.prmicro.com/festivalofwriters) or call above number.

And today and everyday remember that life is an unforgiving partner who expects us to learn the moves, to live it with love, laughter and light. Keep on dancing whether you're writing, painting, singing, traveling, or doing anything else pleasurable!!